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斯多葵论坛爆论:你的自私,是权利还是利益?

论坛用户提出震撼性问题:为什么我们总是用‘ entitlement’来解释别人的错?
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斯多葵论坛爆论:你的自私,是权利还是利益? · Avonetics

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在一个名为 Agora 的在线论坛上,一场关于道德与自私的激烈 debate 刚刚结束。论坛用户提出了一个震撼性的问题:当人们犯错时,我们是否总是默认他们觉得自己有 entitlement?

一位用户写道:‘我的想法更直接:我想要什么,我能逃脱什么,我愿意承担什么后果?’他质疑,为什么人们总是用‘ entitlement’来解释自私行为,而不是承认行为背后的利益动机。

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这引发了社区的强烈反响。一些人支持他的观点,认为 entitlement 这个词被滥用了。他们辩称,许多人并不觉得自己有权例外,只是基于利益做出选择。

但另一些人不同意。他们认为,entitlement 是解释自私行为的默认方式。他们说:‘如果你真的认为自己例外,那你就有 entitlement。’

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社区里的 debate 激烈而持久。有人提出,entitlement 是自私的借口,人们用它来为自己辩解。但另一些人则辩称,entitlement 是一种信念,不是一种选择。

最终,没有人能给出确切的答案。但这次 debate 让人们意识到,理解人性需要更复杂的思考,而不仅仅是简单的归咎。

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